Trauma does not always show up in obvious ways. In this post, I reflect on more than a decade of trauma-informed parenting, shaped by foster care, adoption, therapy, faith, and a lot of humility. This is a story about learning to see behavior as communication, releasing control, and choosing faithfulness when answers are hard to find. It is about hope that grows slowly, grace that meets us daily, and trusting God one next step at a time. Click the title to read the full post.
The Grace Space
Foster Care: Learning to Love Without Ownership
Foster care was nothing like we expected. It stretched us, humbled us, and revealed how deeply we needed community. From intense training and constant uncertainty to profound grief and unexpected beauty, this post reflects on the hard and holy realities of loving children without guarantees, and how foster care became one of the clearest pictures of the gospel we have ever lived. Click the title to read the full post.
Self Regulation: The Valentines We Don’t See
Valentine’s week often highlights kindness and connection, yet it can be one of the hardest weeks for children who are overwhelmed or dysregulated. This post looks at self regulation as love in action, offering insight for parents and teachers on how safety, connection, and faith shape behavior long before kindness shows up. Click the title to read the full post.
Grace for the Overthinker: Taking Every Thought Captive
The danger was never real. The anxiety was. If you have ever spiraled over an honest mistake, I hope this reflection brings you comfort and grace. Click the title above to read the full story.
The Beautiful Complications of Siblinghood
Our home is complicated, filled with appointments, medications, and more acronyms than I ever expected to know. But beneath it all is a love that runs deep. Through headaches, allergies, and ADHD, my children have learned patience, compassion, and the kind of empathy that only grows through shared struggle. This post is about finding grace in the middle of that complexity and seeing God’s goodness in the love that holds us together. Click the title to read the full post.
504 vs. IEP: What Parents Need to Know (From a Mom Who Has Sat on Every Side of the Table)
If your child is struggling in school and you are not sure whether they need a 504 Plan or an IEP, you are not alone. I have sat in these meetings as a teacher, a sister, and now a mother, and I know how confusing the process can feel. The good news is that you can initiate support, and you do not have to wait for the school to take the lead. Click the title to read the full guide and learn exactly how to advocate for your child at every stage.
Ten Years to Dyslexia: The Diagnosis We Shouldn’t Have Had to Wait For
For ten years, our daughter struggled with reading, headaches, and exhaustion while everyone insisted she was “fine.” It was not until junior year that we finally uncovered the truth: visual dyslexia. If you have ever questioned your child’s struggles, you’ll want to read this. Trust your gut.
Faith in Hard Seasons
The new year often feels like it should bring energy and excitement, but sometimes it just feels heavy. The joy of Christmas fades, the routines return, and motivation can feel far away. This post is a reminder that faith is not built on feelings but on consistency. Even when life feels quiet and cold, God is still working. Click the title to read the full post.
When Joy and Weariness Sit Side by Side
As the year draws to a close, I find myself reflecting on the emotions that linger beneath the surface—joy, gratitude, weariness, and a quiet sorrow we don’t always name. For a long time, I thought lament was something to avoid or explain away, but I’m learning it is actually an invitation to bring our whole hearts to God. This post explores lament not as failure, but as a faithful practice of honesty, one that leads us toward healing and deeper trust. Click the title to read the full post.
The Peace of Presence
As Christmas draws near, it is easy to be swept up in the noise, the lists, and the rush of the season. But true peace is not found in doing more; it is found in being still with the One who came to be with us. This post is a quiet reminder to slow down, notice the moments that matter, and rest in the peace of Christ’s presence. Click the title to read the full post.
Grace in the Disarray 